I met Lindy 13 years ago. In a cafe in the lhbtqi+ community in S-Hertogenbosch,  the Netherlands. A place were we could really be ourselve. In the beginning we were just best friends. Our family and friends starten telling us they could see that we were in love but we didn’t see that. After 1 year we couldn't deny it anymore. We were in love, very much. 1 year later i asked her to Mary me en we did! It was a perfect day in our hometown with close friends and family.  Lindy was pregnant by our first daughter Pip. We had her with the help of an anonimes spermdonor.  Two years later the same donor made it possible we had twins. Now we are a family with three daughters, Pip is 7 en the other Girls Daan and Lott are 5.

Lott had a genetic chromosome abnormlity,  a chronic illnes. She had a lot of surgery and difficults in her behaviour.  Lindy struggeld with this and the bad experience she had in her work as a police officer. She did see to many heavy things and it was to much for her. Lindy and i did lost eachother in the last few years but didn’t give up. Lott is in a peacefull period of het illness and there's time for Lindy and me again after 5 years. Lindy started treathment for her PTSS and i am so very proud of her!

We have a beautifull family and i'm so thankfull she carried our daughters. We do get closer. How great would it be to celebrate this and our 7the anniversary/wedding day with this perfect trip. To the community where it al started,  where we did find  eachother in the first place and where we do find eachother again. We would invite our best friends Who always supporter us. A straight and homoseksualiteit friend, because that's what pride is about. For everybody, straight,  homosexual,  families,  couples and everybody between and out the box.  Exactly as MINI.